NEW YEAR........NEW YEAR….A TIME FOR RESOLUTIONS ,FOR INTROSPECTION…..WHERE WE ARE, WHAT WE ARE ,WHAT WE WANT TO DO, WHAT WE WANT TO ACHIEVE , WHAT WE WANT TO ACQUIRE,WHAT HABITS TO DITCH AND WHAT BONDS TO ADD AND THE LIST IS ENDLESS.

   PERHAPS WHY WE WAITED TILL NEW YEAR….WHY WE COULD NOT IMPLEMENT SUCH GOOD THINGS EARLIER. WISH WE COULD MAKE EVERY DAY OF OUR LIFE AS NEW YEAR SO THEN WE DO NOT HAVE TO WAIT 365 DAYS TO PROCRASTINATE.

    PERHAPS THE ONLY RESOULUTION I SHOULD MAKE IS TO REVIEW….INTROSPECT MYSELF EVERYDAY FROM NOW ON AND REPLACE PROCRASTINATION WITH ACTION…………..IN A JOURNEY CALLED LIFE.

Life Coaching: A new concept on coaching for life is fast catching up in the western world. Basically everyone needs someone who listens, who guides and gives meaning to his life. With the breakup of joint families and increasing pressure of work and life everyone needs someone to bank on in moments of uncertainty and distress and also otherwise to take life to its fuller form.To work with you for your success. A little search on web shows how this is becoming a new job, a new business for many. Personally I think it is a good idea to have someone guide you all through your life but should it not be for genuine reason of helping someone than taking a payment for your services. I am for it and would love to advice someone all through the journey of life. I don’t know whether we are ready for such a thing…..posing trust to the extent required. Your views..plz…plz.

Have you ever wondered how the human race has evolved over the years? Each generation finds its offspring smarter than them. The journey of life is continuing and improving….adapting continuously. It takes thousands of years before any change is visible and you are doing your bit by existing and doing your job. Is life all about existing? To an extent   YES…… if your existence is meaningful. To the billions of life forms it does not matter whether you exist or don’t. It should certainly matter to you how you exist. Realise that there are hidden energies within you….canalize them. Make a difference to the world you live in. You are the perceiver. Once you have understood yourself……improved yourself….expand your being to your  family…friends…society and beyond. There  are no physical barriers to what you want achieve. The only limitation is your thoughts. Understand the true nature  and the power of thoughts. Don’t let the environment control your thoughts. These are yours and like a master make them your slave. (how it works?-Try to force a smile on your face …..create joy within you….feel the difference you’ve created around you. )Back them with action and you get what you desire. May you fulfill your dreams and exist meaningfully.

The first duty of a living being is towards itself. Sounds selfish??? Not so when you know that it is your physical form that supports your non physical aspects. Most importantly your mind which governs all aspects of your existence.. Other things come later. Unless you are healthy physically and mentally you cannot contribute meaningfully to other higher aspects of life. In today’s fast moving lifestyles we ignore and realize only when it’s a bit too late. Simple….. friends take care of your body mind and soul and in that order too.  Here are some tips ………

* be conscious of slowly reducing the level of toxins in your body.(body)

* design your workable workout and stick to it.(body)

* have a healthy and positive outlook…stay calm(mind)

* practice meditation.(mind and soul)

The above are interlinked and ideal for a perfect balance. I prefer being brief for you to follow clues and have own interpretations. However I am open to elaborations or further discussions. Have a great life.

TIME: This is one thing which no one can hold it has to move and time is running out for everyone including this present generation in the cycle of evolution. Do we realize how time runs out or do we take it that there will be another tomorrow and then another and another. Are we making the best of the time available or simply getting carried away by our routines…schedules…responsibilities. Do we really understand what are our real duties and responsibilities ? Can you foresee the times ahead for you ? Is your current thinking and way of living in line with that ? or is it that you have developed an attitude that if we cant do something about it why worry….. just live it up……….oh really ………….can you not do something about it?

The cosmos….yet to be explored leaves many puzzles unsolved. The myriad of energies present remain an enigma. But the basis of all existence and all creation remains the same nonetheless. The influence of heavenly bodies on our lives and surroundings keep the pundits employed. The patterns formed and their remarkable analysis by some lead to amazingly true predictions. If everything was so destined why worry…just take life as it comes. This is where your power of mind come in………to break patterns….to emerge free and victorious. The true essence of life should it not be to live and lead in a way  what your mind(YOU)dictates and not what is thrust upon you by the influence of stars and planets. Sure it does help to flow with the energy patterns and calls for great deal of WILL to break free. Decide for yourself what and how your life should be. Learn to create energies that work for you. The source is there ….it is for you to tap it and break free from the shackles IN life.

Love or Lust. Two sides of the same coin. Which coin??? Is one on the mental plane and the other physical ? Does love leads to lust or lust leads to love? Is there some lust even in love? Love is pure but then who says lust is impure? Will the creation move forward if there was no lust??

We were all born alone and will fade alone one day. All Alone referred to this simily and not to the commonly understood loneliness. It is neither relative nor superlative but a reality. So the next Q…how do you face it. For most  as I see it is difficult to digest such facts of life after all all of us are too complacent in the present respective cosy cocoons built around ourselves. Well I can only empathise and smile :)

I was walking all along…..all alone…facing difficulties……facing challenges all alone…..I had companions….I had friends……yet I was alone….all alone …….the struggle within….the needs within…my challenges….my aspirations…my desires….belonged to me…to me alone…till I found someone I could bank upon and I thought now nothing was impossible….with his  inscrutable powers in our lives……..and beyond…I would no longer be alone….but then he turned around and said…….your body belongs to you alone….your thoughts….your will ….your freedom belongs to you alone….no one else….but you alone are the master of your destiny….get up and you alone with your free will…your free thoughts and your freedom shall achieve what you destine for yourself and you being made in my image your will, your….,your……,your….is reflection of mine…you are made in my reflection. You are mine …….all alone…no…not me.

Do prayers work………..More often than not people pray and pray quite regularly…..sometimes out of habit without knowing what they are praying for…sometimes asking for something…a miracle that could change their life. Sometimes getting nothing out of prayers and other times just waiting for their prayers to be answered. Have you ever wondered what is a prayer and how it works?

First, you have to be very clear on what you are praying for and to whom.(whom?????????) That over, try to find a time and place for it. Don’t expect miracles(though that may happen).

 Don’t expect instant results. (though that may happen)Make a prayer for yourself.

 Now with the power of concentration direct your energies and thoughts towards it. Do it regularly and intensely. Concentrate on specific areas rather than a generalized passing thought. Learn to meditate. With a calm and clear mind you will find answers. Now act on it.Remember you are at the center of it. Action is the basis to make prayers work.  Though when you churn up ether with the intensity of your thought waves(I prefer relating it in this manner) you influence the energy fields around creating an environment conducive to your thought waves or desires. But rather than waiting for things to happen on their own(which may never happen) act on the insight guided by the intuitive thoughts you receive while praying. Well…..your prayers may work.